Where are the axes for chemistry, intelligence, emotional supportiveness, sense of humor, political views, access to exotic cheeses, lack of douchey friends, quality of record collection, ability to paint the nails on my left hand because I can't do it myself, etc.? Assume that diffusion coefficient indicates that they are women. Let friends in your social network know what you are reading about. Some get right to the point.
However, including things like you to assess and friends.